I never have understood the concept of Valentines Day.  I mean, I get the whole St. Valentine thing and all, but I just can’t give into the holiday.  I had lunch with a friend today, where I overheard a few ladies talking about what they’d be receiving for the “big day”.  A couple commented on how they used to get flowers, but now all they get is a card and taken to dinner.  One said that her husband would cook her dinner, but she’s sure he’d burn it.  I smiled, as I complimented myself on not giving into the hype of the occasion.  I have this strange belief that we should celebrate those we love everyday.  I’d much rather receive 6 bouquets of flowers spontaneously  during the year than threaten Patrick with his life it I don’t get those $120.00 roses on February 14.  Well, maybe I don’t get the flowers.  But my husband came home one day this summer out of the blue with the digital camera I’d been wanting.  No occasion…just because he was thinking of me.  He has asked me everyday since we found out I was pregnant how I feel…usually multiple times.  And today, on my way home from the doctor, he called to check in.  “Where are you,” he asked. ”I’m about 4 miles behind you on I-24.  You should slow down and wait on me.” I replied.  We talked for a while, then decided that  I probably wouldn’t be able to catch up with him.  “See you later.  I love you!”, we both said.   Five minutes later I pulled up to my house where my husband had stopped on his way to a job to “see me and give me a kiss”.  Those are my Valentine moments.  I despise the fact that there are those relationships whose relationships depend on the price and size of the gift.  My advice…If it matters that much, just go ahead and get out.  For us, Valentines will consist of the following - hanging out with our daughter before school talking about how fun Valentines day is - Patrick will go to work and call several times just to say hello - I’ll have lunch with Emma at school, then help with her party - We’ll get home and make cupcakes for Daddy for a special Valentines party - We’ll have dinner, give Emma a couple little goodies, and put her in bed - Patrick and I will relax on the couch and watch Criminal Minds and CSI New York…if we can stay awake! Call me boring, but THOSE are my Valentine moments.  Because all of the above make me feel completely loved.  I wish all of you wonderful Valentine moments…everyday!!!